The church I attend is really effective in supporting each other. A friend of mine called to ask if I could take home our other friend's kids from school. She has MS and needed to couldn't do it. It was nice to be able to do something to help out. Afterwards, when I was home, I thought about how lonely it must be to be in bed all day. I hadn't realized this was a pretty frequent experience. So I called my friend and asked if she'd like it if I just came over and hung out. She said sure, that she might be asleep for part of it, but I assured her that was fine. Then she told me it was her birthday the next day, and having me come would be a nice way to celebrate it. She was turning 40. I was floored. Did no one know it was her birthday? Well, her close friends in our church now know. I am positive she will have a series of calls or visits that will really bless her. One little question opened up the door to celebrating this special birthday. I love the sequence of events and how her Father lined it all up so she would know how truly special she is to Him, and to us.